Monday, July 14, 2008

funeral programs

During this traumatic and emotionally overwhelming time, we will also be faced with making the arrangements necessary for funeral services. In some cases, the deceased will have outlined the details of their own funeral many years prior to their death, of course this means that the family members are simply responsible for setting in motion this plan.

In case that makes you nervous or uncomfortable, practice in front of a mirror. Even so, it does not have to be looked upon as a daunting task. Any displays of affection, words that described the brighter side of their personalities will make someone feel special, will all count in the eulogy.

After pondering the loss of loved ones and thinking about what will happen when close ones die, I discovered something I would like to share with you. If you and the deceased were co-workers, then talk about how great he performed his job, his dedication to doing his work and his ambition to do well in his chosen career. A funeral poem should about the person and their journey through life more than writing down your feelings.

Be sure, though, not to include anything that may offend or embarrass. Think about your life and what would you like most remembered.

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