Regardless if the eulogy is about a loved one, a co-worker, a friend, while you are grieving the last thing you desire to do is stand up in front of a group of people you may or may not know and bare your soul, emotions and your grief. If you're looking for a poem to read at a funeral there are certain things you should be aware of first.
Even if you do not suffer from public speaking nerves, it would be a good idea to practice giving your eulogy in front of a family member or a friend. If loved ones are left to make the decisions then choices need to be made during an already stressful and exhausting period of time. It will take a little time to make it perfect, so do not get frustrated if you are unable to write eulogy in one sitting.
The bereaved needs to express his sadness and anger together with the memories of the deceased person. Organize the materials that you have gathered, pick the data that you will need then prepare an outline. If you are asked to speak at a memorial or funeral service and are having a difficult time writing down how this loss has made you or the family feel, consider including a poem in your tribute.
There are many facets to planning a funeral. Practice delivering your eulogy in front of a mirror or a friend in order that you can see if improvements or additional editing have to be made.